{"id":1914,"date":"1996-02-01T13:49:06","date_gmt":"1996-02-01T13:49:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.brunomedicina.com\/1996\/02\/01\/persecutor-victima-sau-salvator\/"},"modified":"2026-05-20T10:25:37","modified_gmt":"2026-05-20T10:25:37","slug":"persecutor-victima-sau-salvator","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.brunomedicina.com\/ro\/1996\/02\/01\/persecutor-victima-sau-salvator\/","title":{"rendered":"Persecutor, victim\u0103 sau\u2026 salvator?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-moh979ep-06d32bd6b9e5f622abff2ab51e41a3a3\">\n#top .av-special-heading.av-moh979ep-06d32bd6b9e5f622abff2ab51e41a3a3{\npadding-bottom:10px;\nfont-size:3vw;\n}\nbody .av-special-heading.av-moh979ep-06d32bd6b9e5f622abff2ab51e41a3a3 .av-special-heading-tag .heading-char{\nfont-size:25px;\n}\n#top #wrap_all .av-special-heading.av-moh979ep-06d32bd6b9e5f622abff2ab51e41a3a3 .av-special-heading-tag{\nfont-size:3vw;\n}\n.av-special-heading.av-moh979ep-06d32bd6b9e5f622abff2ab51e41a3a3 .av-subheading{\nfont-size:15px;\n}\n\n@media only screen and (min-width: 990px){ \n#top #wrap_all .av-special-heading.av-moh979ep-06d32bd6b9e5f622abff2ab51e41a3a3 .av-special-heading-tag{\nfont-size:46px;\n}\n}\n\n@media only screen and (min-width: 768px) and (max-width: 989px){ \n#top #wrap_all .av-special-heading.av-moh979ep-06d32bd6b9e5f622abff2ab51e41a3a3 .av-special-heading-tag{\nfont-size:46px;\n}\n}\n\n@media only screen and (min-width: 480px) and (max-width: 767px){ \n#top #wrap_all .av-special-heading.av-moh979ep-06d32bd6b9e5f622abff2ab51e41a3a3 .av-special-heading-tag{\nfont-size:46px;\n}\n}\n\n@media only screen and (max-width: 479px){ \n#top #wrap_all .av-special-heading.av-moh979ep-06d32bd6b9e5f622abff2ab51e41a3a3 .av-special-heading-tag{\nfont-size:46px;\n}\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='av-special-heading av-moh979ep-06d32bd6b9e5f622abff2ab51e41a3a3 av-special-heading-h2 blockquote modern-quote  avia-builder-el-0  el_before_av_textblock  avia-builder-el-first  av-inherit-size'><h2 class='av-special-heading-tag '  itemprop=\"headline\"  >Persecutor, victim\u0103 sau\u2026 salvator?<\/h2><div class=\"special-heading-border\"><div class=\"special-heading-inner-border\"><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-8a5ac-4ca18346be4b3be7e31567e97a58d21d\">\n#top .av_textblock_section.av-8a5ac-4ca18346be4b3be7e31567e97a58d21d .avia_textblock{\nfont-size:17px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<section  class='av_textblock_section av-8a5ac-4ca18346be4b3be7e31567e97a58d21d '   itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-342 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/www.brunomedicina.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/1996\/02\/dramatriangle.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"440\" height=\"311\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.brunomedicina.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/1996\/02\/dramatriangle.jpg 640w, https:\/\/www.brunomedicina.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/1996\/02\/dramatriangle-300x212.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.brunomedicina.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/1996\/02\/dramatriangle-260x185.jpg 260w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 440px) 100vw, 440px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>\u2013 Ah\u2026 tineretul de azi! Ce va deveni?<\/em><br \/>\n<em>\u2013 Ai perfect\u0103 dreptate, exact a\u0219a este!<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u2013 C\u00e2t e ceasul? \u0218apte.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u2013 Unde e dosarul ro\u0219u?<\/em><br \/>\n<em>\u2013 Dac\u0103 ai fi mai organizat, ai \u0219ti!<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u2013 El: Vino la mine s\u0103 ascult\u0103m ni\u0219te muzic\u0103\u2026<\/em><br \/>\n<em>\u2013 Ea: Bun\u0103 idee\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Am enumerat aici c\u00e2teva dialoguri pe care le-a\u021bi putea auzi \u0219i folosi de mii de ori pe zi, alese \u00een mod deliberat dintre cele mai banale care mi-au venit \u00een minte.<br \/>\nDac\u0103 definim fiecare dintre aceste schimburi de replici ca o \u201etranzac\u021bie\u201d \u0219i \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 le analiz\u0103m semnifica\u021biile, ne angaj\u0103m \u00een ceea ce se nume\u0219te \u00een termeni \u0219tiin\u021bifici \u201eanaliza tranzac\u021bional\u0103\u201d.<\/p>\n<h2>Ce este analiza tranzac\u021bional\u0103 (TA)?<\/h2>\n<p>Analiza tranzac\u021bional\u0103 (TA) a ap\u0103rut \u00een anii 1960 prin munca unui psihoterapeut american, Eric Berne, cu scopul de a face accesibile publicului larg cele mai complexe concepte din psihologie \u0219i psihanaliz\u0103, \u0219i a c\u00e2\u0219tigat rapid popularitate la toate nivelurile lumii afacerilor (de la v\u00e2nz\u0103tori la directori), datorit\u0103 capacit\u0103\u021bii sale de a r\u0103spunde cu u\u0219urin\u021b\u0103 nevoilor de comunicare cotidiene \u0219i profesionale.<\/p>\n<p>TA, chiar dac\u0103 uneori are defectul de a fi simplist\u0103, poate fi considerat\u0103 o adev\u0103rat\u0103 cheie a comunic\u0103rii; doresc, a\u0219adar, s\u0103 prezint pe scurt conceptele principale, av\u00e2nd \u00eencredere, ca \u00eentotdeauna, \u00een capacitatea dumneavoastr\u0103 de a g\u0103si exemple \u0219i aplica\u021bii pe cont propriu.<\/p>\n<p>Analiza tranzac\u021bional\u0103 include:<\/p>\n<p>\u2013 Analiza structural\u0103, care ne ajut\u0103 s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegem starea de spirit \u00een care se afl\u0103 o persoan\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2013 Analiza tranzac\u021bional\u0103, care aprofundeaz\u0103 ceea ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u00een schimburile de comunicare interpersonal\u0103.<br \/>\n\u2013 Analiza atitudinii fa\u021b\u0103 de via\u021b\u0103, adic\u0103 tiparele pe care oamenii le folosesc, mai mult sau mai pu\u021bin con\u0219tient, \u00een fa\u021ba existen\u021bei.<br \/>\n\u2013 Analiza jocului, care permite \u00een\u021belegerea \u0219i rezolvarea eficient\u0103 a unei serii de situa\u021bii tipice.<\/p>\n<h2>Analiza structural\u0103: Cele 3 st\u0103ri ale sinelui<\/h2>\n<p>O stare a sinelui este definit\u0103 ca un sistem de g\u00e2nduri, comportamente \u0219i emo\u021bii care plaseaz\u0103 fiecare individ \u00een rela\u021bie cu mediul (mediul poate fi o alt\u0103 persoan\u0103, o familie, un grup sau o companie).<\/p>\n<p>AT se bazeaz\u0103 pe observa\u021bia c\u0103 fiecare dintre noi posed\u0103 o component\u0103 ra\u021bional\u0103 (starea de Adult), o component\u0103 emo\u021bional\u0103 (starea de Copil) \u0219i o component\u0103 care stocheaz\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103turile \u0219i ata\u0219amentele primite de la p\u0103rin\u021bi, \u00eengrijitori \u0219i profesori (starea de P\u0103rinte).<\/p>\n<p>Aceste trei st\u0103ri ale sinelui nu au nicio leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu v\u00e2rsta real\u0103 sau cu rela\u021biile de rudenie, ci se refer\u0103 mai degrab\u0103 la tiparele comportamentale; trecem de la o stare la alta \u00een func\u021bie de situa\u021bie.<\/p>\n<p>Dar s\u0103 analiz\u0103m \u00een detaliu componentele sinelui.<\/p>\n<h3>Starea P\u0103rintelui<\/h3>\n<p>Aceasta este o reflectare a educa\u021biei primite, care \u00ee\u0219i las\u0103 amprenta asupra copil\u0103riei \u0219i adolescen\u021bei, continu\u00e2nd s\u0103 influen\u021beze individul adult.<\/p>\n<p>Valorile transmise se refer\u0103 la:<\/p>\n<p>\u2013 bine \u0219i r\u0103u<\/p>\n<p>\u2013 ce ar trebui s\u0103 faci \u0219i ce nu ar trebui s\u0103 faci<\/p>\n<p>\u2013 convingeri<\/p>\n<p>\u2013 \u00eemplinirea profesional\u0103<\/p>\n<p>\u2013 c\u0103s\u0103toriei<\/p>\n<p>\u2013 tradi\u021bii etc.<\/p>\n<p>Starea p\u0103rintelui se \u00eemparte \u00een:<\/p>\n<p>\u2013 P\u0103rintele normativ, care se refer\u0103 la normele sociale \u0219i metodele de evaluare;<\/p>\n<p>\u2013 P\u0103rintele afectiv (sau protector) este cel care protejeaz\u0103, m\u00e2ng\u00e2ie, sus\u021bine \u0219i \u00eencurajeaz\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>P\u0103rintele normativ negativ (NNP)<\/p>\n<p>Acesta se refer\u0103 la p\u0103rintele care \u00ee\u0219i subestimeaz\u0103 copilul.<\/p>\n<p>Ex.: \u201eNu \u0219tii s\u0103 faci nimic!\u201d; \u201eNu a\u0219a se face!\u201d; \u201eLa v\u00e2rsta ta, eu aveam rezultate mult mai bune dec\u00e2t tine!\u201d\u2026<\/p>\n<p>P\u0103rintele normativ pozitiv (PNP)<\/p>\n<p>Acesta este p\u0103rintele care d\u0103 ordine \u0219i stabile\u0219te limite, asigur\u00e2ndu-se c\u0103 acestea sunt respectate.<\/p>\n<p>Ex.: \u201eDu-te la culcare; m\u00e2ine trebuie s\u0103 te treze\u0219ti devreme!\u201d; \u201eNu te mai \u00eendopa, o s\u0103 faci indigestie\u201d; \u201eSalut\u0103-l pe vecin!\u201d; \u201eNu trebuie s\u0103 spui minciuni!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen ambele cazuri, tonul este sever, iar atitudinea este rece \u0219i autoritar\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Vocea este ascu\u021bit\u0103 \u0219i dur\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Avantaje: Transmite principii morale, facilit\u00e2nd integrarea individului \u00een mediul s\u0103u social.<\/p>\n<p>Dezavantaje: Rigiditatea sa poate inhiba \u0219i sufoca creativitatea \u0219i imagina\u021bia.<\/p>\n<p>P\u0103rintele afectuos negativ (NAP)<\/p>\n<p>Acesta este p\u0103rintele excesiv de afectuos, care devine supraprotector \u0219i \u00eempiedic\u0103 dezvoltarea natural\u0103 a copilului.<\/p>\n<p>Ex.: \u201eO s\u0103 fac eu treaba \u00een locul t\u0103u, ca s\u0103 nu \u021bi se \u00eent\u00e2mple nimic r\u0103u\u201d; \u201ePrietenul \u0103la nu e bun pentru tine.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>P\u0103rinte cu o atitudine emo\u021bional\u0103 pozitiv\u0103 (PEP)<\/p>\n<p>Acesta este p\u0103rintele care \u00ee\u0219i ajut\u0103, sf\u0103tuie\u0219te \u0219i are grij\u0103 de copilul s\u0103u, respect\u00e2ndu-i \u00een acela\u0219i timp autonomia.<\/p>\n<p>Ex.: \u201eAsta poate fi periculos; a\u0219teapt\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi ar\u0103t o metod\u0103 mai sigur\u0103\u201d; \u201eE destul de frig ast\u0103zi; ar fi bine s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi pui altceva pe tine.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Din punct de vedere fizic, gesturile sale sunt generoase \u0219i deschise. Vocea sa este cald\u0103, dulce \u0219i lini\u0219titoare.<\/p>\n<p>Avantaje: Creeaz\u0103 condi\u021bii propice dezvolt\u0103rii naturale \u0219i sigure a copilului.<\/p>\n<p>Dezavantaje: Supraprotec\u021bia poate sufoca \u0219i inhiba orice ini\u021biativ\u0103.<\/p>\n<h3>Starea copilului<\/h3>\n<p>Fiecare individ poart\u0103 \u00een sine urme ale unor perioade din via\u021ba sa caracterizate de lec\u021bii \u0219i descoperiri.<\/p>\n<p>Adultul va \u00eencerca incon\u0219tient s\u0103 recreeze toate acele situa\u021bii care l-au marcat \u00een trecut. Ne reg\u0103sim \u00een propria noastr\u0103 Stare de Copil atunci c\u00e2nd ne angaj\u0103m \u00eentr-o activitate recreativ\u0103, fie ea individual\u0103 sau de grup.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen fiecare individ exist\u0103 o parte a personalit\u0103\u021bii rezervat\u0103 Sinelui Copil.<\/p>\n<p>Copilul adaptat<\/p>\n<p>Copilul docil, supus corespunde acestui stil de ata\u0219ament, comport\u00e2ndu-se \u00eentotdeauna \u00een conformitate cu a\u0219tept\u0103rile celor din jur.<\/p>\n<p>El ascult\u0103 \u0219i \u00eendepline\u0219te ordinele pe care le prime\u0219te.<\/p>\n<p>Ex.: \u201e\u00cemi pare r\u0103u c\u0103 te deranjez, dar \u021bi-am adus ce ai vrut\u201d; \u201eA\u0219 prefera o cafea, dar dac\u0103 nu se poate, nu e at\u00e2t de important\u201d; \u201e\u00cemi pare r\u0103u! Poate\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Copilul bine adaptat accept\u0103 regulile grupului, r\u0103m\u00e2n\u00e2nd calm \u0219i rezervat. Vocea lui este bl\u00e2nd\u0103 \u0219i moderat\u0103. Tonul s\u0103u este echilibrat \u0219i ezitant.<\/p>\n<p>Avantaje: Respectarea regulilor consolideaz\u0103 valorile sociale.<\/p>\n<p>Dezavantaje: docilitatea excesiv\u0103 duce la indecizie \u0219i \u00eendoial\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Copilul rebel<\/p>\n<p>Se caracterizeaz\u0103 printr-o serie de comportamente negative \u0219i conflictuale: agresivitate, dorin\u021ba de a fi \u00een centrul aten\u021biei spun\u00e2nd \u201enu\u201d \u0219i opozi\u021bie f\u0103r\u0103 discern\u0103m\u00e2nt.<\/p>\n<p>Ex.: \u201eNu am chef acum!\u201d; \u201eNu am nevoie de tine, pot s\u0103 o fac singur!\u201d; \u201eLas\u0103-m\u0103 \u00een pace!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Gesturile sale sunt abrupte \u0219i, ocazional, violente; vocea sa este energic\u0103 \u0219i furioas\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Avantaje: protejeaz\u0103 \u00eempotriva domin\u0103rii de c\u0103tre al\u021bii \u0219i a abuzului de putere.<\/p>\n<p>Dezavantaje: Poate \u00eempiedica comunicarea cu lumea exterioar\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Micul profesor<\/p>\n<p>Acesta este sediul creativit\u0103\u021bii \u0219i al inven\u021biilor. Persoana este curioas\u0103 s\u0103 afle \u0219i s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 \u0219i \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 rezolve toate problemele care apar. Are \u00eencredere \u00een propriile abilit\u0103\u021bi \u0219i este \u00eentotdeauna convins\u0103 c\u0103 a g\u0103sit cea mai bun\u0103 solu\u021bie.<\/p>\n<p>Ex.: \u201eAm avut o idee genial\u0103\u201d; \u201eCine \u0219tie cum naiba func\u021bioneaz\u0103, \u00eemi vine s\u0103-l dezasamblez!\u201d; \u201eDac\u0103 o faci a\u0219a, vei reu\u0219i, f\u0103r\u0103 \u00eendoial\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Privirea lor este vie \u0219i str\u0103lucitoare. Adesea dezasambleaz\u0103 lucrurile pentru a \u00een\u021belege cum func\u021bioneaz\u0103. Vocea lor este seduc\u0103toare \u0219i g\u00e2nditoare. Vorbesc cu pasiune.<\/p>\n<p>Avantaje: activitatea creativ\u0103 \u0219i artistic\u0103 este stimulat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Dezavantaje: distragere excesiv\u0103 a aten\u021biei, cu riscul de a deveni superficial.<\/p>\n<p>Copilul spontan<\/p>\n<p>Este o expresie a entuziasmului, a maniei, a fricii \u0219i a descuraj\u0103rii.<\/p>\n<p>Individul \u00ee\u0219i exprim\u0103 dorin\u021bele, nevoile, satisfac\u021bia \u0219i nemul\u021bumirea.<\/p>\n<p>Ex.: \u201eVorbe\u0219te aiurea!\u201d; \u201eUau, o s\u0103 ne distr\u0103m pe cinste \u00een seara asta\u2026\u201d; \u201eMi-e foame, cump\u0103r\u0103-mi o pr\u0103jitur\u0103!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u00ce\u0219i folosesc corpul pentru a se exprima; nu sunt foarte con\u0219tien\u021bi de sine; ac\u021bioneaz\u0103 liber.<\/p>\n<p>Vocea lor este energic\u0103; tonul se adapteaz\u0103 situa\u021biei: r\u00e2d, strig\u0103, pl\u00e2ng.<\/p>\n<p>Avantaje: spontaneitate \u0219i energie; bucurie \u0219i entuziasm.<\/p>\n<p>Dezavantaje: lipsa de control poate fi d\u0103un\u0103toare \u00een anumite situa\u021bii.<\/p>\n<h3>Starea de adult<\/h3>\n<p>Caracteristica distinctiv\u0103 a st\u0103rii de adult este primirea unei serii de informa\u021bii, punerea lor cap la cap \u0219i dezvoltarea lor \u00eentr-o manier\u0103 logic\u0103, ra\u021bional\u0103 \u0219i obiectiv\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Starea de adult nu este strict legat\u0103 de v\u00e2rsta individului, ci este autonom\u0103 \u0219i independent\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Starea de adult este de obicei activat\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd:<\/p>\n<p>\u2013 se dore\u0219te rezolvarea unei probleme<\/p>\n<p>\u2013 se stabilesc obiective<\/p>\n<p>\u2013 se asum\u0103 responsabilitatea<\/p>\n<p>\u2013 se ia o decizie<\/p>\n<p>\u2013 se caut\u0103 o solu\u021bie<\/p>\n<p>\u2013 se ini\u021biaz\u0103 o negociere<\/p>\n<p>\u2013 se \u00eencearc\u0103 evaluarea rezultatelor<\/p>\n<p>\u2013 s\u0103 caute un compromis.<\/p>\n<p>Expresii tipice sunt: \u201eEste posibil ca\u2026\u201d; \u201eCred c\u0103\u2026\u201d; \u201eDeducem c\u0103\u2026\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Contactul vizual este direct, dar neutru. Postura corpului: dreapt\u0103 \u0219i relaxat\u0103. Vocea este ferm\u0103 \u0219i neutr\u0103. Tonul este clar, dar f\u0103r\u0103 expresie.<\/p>\n<p>Avantaje: informa\u021biile sunt prezentate \u00een mod logic \u0219i obiectiv.<\/p>\n<p>Dezavantaje: poate p\u0103rea rece \u0219i lipsit de emo\u021bie.<\/p>\n<p>*************************************************************<\/p>\n<p>A\u0219a cum am men\u021bionat deja, trecem constant de la o stare la alta \u00een diverse situa\u021bii, indiferent de v\u00e2rst\u0103 sau de rela\u021biile familiale.<\/p>\n<p>Evident, atunci c\u00e2nd comunic\u0103m cu cineva care se afl\u0103 \u00eentr-o anumit\u0103 stare de spirit, acest lucru d\u0103 na\u0219tere la o gam\u0103 larg\u0103 de interac\u021biuni; studiul tuturor acestor posibilit\u0103\u021bi de comunicare este tocmai ceea ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 Analiza Tranzac\u021bional\u0103. S\u0103 ne oprim un moment pentru a revizui dialogurile noastre ini\u021biale.<\/p>\n<p><em>-Ah\u2026 tinerii de azi! Ce va deveni de ei?<\/em><br \/>\n<em>-Ai perfect\u0103 dreptate, exact a\u0219a este!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Evident, tranzac\u021bia dintre un P\u0103rinte Prescriptiv \u0219i un alt P\u0103rinte Prescriptiv.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u2013 C\u00e2t este ceasul? \u0218apte.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Schimb de informa\u021bii neutre:<\/p>\n<p>Adult -&gt; Adult.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u2013 A: Unde este dosarul ro\u0219u?<\/em><br \/>\n<em>\u2013 B: Dac\u0103 ai fi mai organizat, ai \u0219ti!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Tranzac\u021bie \u00eencruci\u0219at\u0103: A cere informa\u021bii (Adult -&gt; Adult), B r\u0103spunde cu o critic\u0103. (P\u0103rinte autoritar -&gt; Copil).<\/p>\n<p><em>\u2013 El: Vino aici s\u0103 ascult\u0103m ni\u0219te muzic\u0103\u2026<\/em><br \/>\n<em>\u2013 Ea: Bun\u0103 idee\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Tranzac\u021bie ascuns\u0103. Dialogul pare a fi Adult\u2013Adult, dar comunicarea real\u0103 este Copil\u2013Copil (\u201eVrei s\u0103 te joci cu mine? Da, m\u0103 joc\u201d).<\/p>\n<p>Nu voi continua cu exemple, deoarece ar trebui s\u0103 v\u0103 fie u\u0219or s\u0103 v\u0103 g\u00e2ndi\u021bi la propriile exemple p\u00e2n\u0103 acum. \u00cenc\u0103 o dat\u0103, v\u0103 rog s\u0103 observa\u021bi pe ceilal\u021bi \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba\u021bi s\u0103 recunoa\u0219te\u021bi st\u0103rile sinelui \u0219i tipurile de tranzac\u021bii pe care le declan\u0219eaz\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Vom vedea \u00een articolul urm\u0103tor cum se utilizeaz\u0103 aceste informa\u021bii \u00een practic\u0103: am anticipat, de fapt, c\u0103 unele situa\u021bii standard dau na\u0219tere la \u201ejocuri\u201d, iar aceast\u0103 analiz\u0103 este deosebit de interesant\u0103 \u0219i distractiv\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Deocamdat\u0103, re\u021bine\u021bi pur \u0219i simplu c\u0103 dezvoltarea excesiv\u0103 a st\u0103rii de \u201eP\u0103rinte Normativ Negativ\u201d duce la un tip de personalitate de \u201ePersecutor\u201d. \u00cen mod similar, starea Copilului excesiv de adaptat d\u0103 na\u0219tere comportamentului de \u201eVictim\u0103\u201d, \u00een timp ce starea P\u0103rintelui excesiv de afectuos duce la tipul de personalitate de \u201eSalvator\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Dar nu se afl\u0103 oare triunghiul arhetipal format din \u201ePersecutor\u201d, \u201eVictim\u0103\u201d \u0219i \u201eSalvator\u201d \u00een centrul fiec\u0103rui roman, film, tranzac\u021bie \u0219i eveniment?<\/p>\n<p>V\u0103 promit o mul\u021bime de surprize \u00een urm\u0103torul articol!<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Descoper\u0103 dinamica ascuns\u0103 a interac\u021biunilor umane. \u00cenva\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 recuno\u0219ti st\u0103rile P\u0103rinte, Adult \u0219i Copil at\u00e2t la tine, c\u00e2t \u0219i la ceilal\u021bi, pentru a gestiona rela\u021biile mai eficient \u0219i a te elibera de \u201etriunghiul dramatic\u201d.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":546,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[35,8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1914","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-article","category-uncategorized-ro"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v27.6 (Yoast SEO v27.7) - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-premium-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Persecutor, victim\u0103 sau... salvator? 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