{"id":1943,"date":"1996-04-01T15:12:47","date_gmt":"1996-04-01T15:12:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.brunomedicina.com\/1996\/04\/01\/las-o-in-pace-pe-capra-vecinului\/"},"modified":"2026-05-20T20:28:51","modified_gmt":"2026-05-20T20:28:51","slug":"las-o-in-pace-pe-capra-vecinului","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.brunomedicina.com\/ro\/1996\/04\/01\/las-o-in-pace-pe-capra-vecinului\/","title":{"rendered":"Las-o \u00een pace\u2026 pe capra vecinului!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-mohc6ups-ed5fdb9312cb110eaeca12ca2d92460f\">\n#top .av-special-heading.av-mohc6ups-ed5fdb9312cb110eaeca12ca2d92460f{\npadding-bottom:10px;\nfont-size:3vw;\n}\nbody .av-special-heading.av-mohc6ups-ed5fdb9312cb110eaeca12ca2d92460f .av-special-heading-tag .heading-char{\nfont-size:25px;\n}\n#top #wrap_all .av-special-heading.av-mohc6ups-ed5fdb9312cb110eaeca12ca2d92460f .av-special-heading-tag{\nfont-size:3vw;\n}\n.av-special-heading.av-mohc6ups-ed5fdb9312cb110eaeca12ca2d92460f .av-subheading{\nfont-size:15px;\n}\n\n@media only screen and (min-width: 990px){ \n#top #wrap_all .av-special-heading.av-mohc6ups-ed5fdb9312cb110eaeca12ca2d92460f .av-special-heading-tag{\nfont-size:46px;\n}\n}\n\n@media only screen and (min-width: 768px) and (max-width: 989px){ \n#top #wrap_all .av-special-heading.av-mohc6ups-ed5fdb9312cb110eaeca12ca2d92460f .av-special-heading-tag{\nfont-size:46px;\n}\n}\n\n@media only screen and (min-width: 480px) and (max-width: 767px){ \n#top #wrap_all .av-special-heading.av-mohc6ups-ed5fdb9312cb110eaeca12ca2d92460f .av-special-heading-tag{\nfont-size:46px;\n}\n}\n\n@media only screen and (max-width: 479px){ \n#top #wrap_all .av-special-heading.av-mohc6ups-ed5fdb9312cb110eaeca12ca2d92460f .av-special-heading-tag{\nfont-size:46px;\n}\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='av-special-heading av-mohc6ups-ed5fdb9312cb110eaeca12ca2d92460f av-special-heading-h2 blockquote modern-quote  avia-builder-el-0  el_before_av_textblock  avia-builder-el-first  av-inherit-size'><h2 class='av-special-heading-tag '  itemprop=\"headline\"  >Las-o \u00een pace\u2026 pe capra vecinului!<\/h2><div class=\"special-heading-border\"><div class=\"special-heading-inner-border\"><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-8zgka-d8b4ae7089bcf9b88b6eda06377364a0\">\n#top .av_textblock_section.av-8zgka-d8b4ae7089bcf9b88b6eda06377364a0 .avia_textblock{\nfont-size:17px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<section  class='av_textblock_section av-8zgka-d8b4ae7089bcf9b88b6eda06377364a0 '   itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-357 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/www.brunomedicina.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/1996\/04\/games.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"440\" height=\"311\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.brunomedicina.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/1996\/04\/games.jpg 640w, https:\/\/www.brunomedicina.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/1996\/04\/games-300x212.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.brunomedicina.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/1996\/04\/games-260x185.jpg 260w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 440px) 100vw, 440px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Chiar dac\u0103 Eric Berne \u2013 fondatorul Analizei Tranzac\u021bionale \u2013 nu ar fi scris despre altceva dec\u00e2t despre jocurile psihologice (\u201eJocurile pe care le joac\u0103 oamenii\u201d), tot ar fi l\u0103sat o amprent\u0103 asupra con\u0219tiin\u021bei umane. Punerea acestui subiect pe h\u00e2rtie a fost, pentru mine, scuza perfect\u0103 pentru a-l reciti \u0219i pentru a realiza c\u0103, la treizeci de ani de la publicare, nu \u0219i-a pierdut nimic din relevan\u021b\u0103 sau eficacitate. Din acest motiv, nu pot dec\u00e2t s\u0103 recomand citirea acestei lucr\u0103ri oricui are ocazia, \u00eentruc\u00e2t scurtul meu rezumat nu poate transmite dec\u00e2t \u00eentr-o m\u0103sur\u0103 foarte limitat\u0103 ceea ce, din toate punctele de vedere, reprezint\u0103 opera unui geniu.<br \/>\nBerne descrie aproximativ 50 de situa\u021bii tipice de comportament social; pentru a le face u\u0219or de \u00een\u021beles publicului larg, le explic\u0103 folosind termeni pe care oricine \u00eei poate \u00een\u021belege.<br \/>\nEvident, detaliile specifice pot varia, dar mecanismul de baz\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2ne acela\u0219i, fie c\u0103 este vorba de o conversa\u021bie \u00eentre so\u021bi sau de o \u0219edin\u021b\u0103 a consiliului de administra\u021bie al unei corpora\u021bii multina\u021bionale. S\u0103 ne amintim c\u0103 acestea sunt situa\u021bii pe care nu le cre\u0103m inten\u021bionat \u0219i care tind s\u0103 se repete cu o regularitate nepl\u0103cut\u0103.<br \/>\nPe de alt\u0103 parte, fiecare dintre noi tinde s\u0103 prefere anumite jocuri \u00een detrimentul altora, \u00een func\u021bie de context \u0219i de persoana cu care vorbim.<br \/>\n\u201eAvantajul\u201d unui joc psihologic const\u0103 \u00een faptul c\u0103 persoanele implicate tr\u0103iesc un moment \u201eintens\u201d f\u0103r\u0103 ca ceva s\u0103 se \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021beasc\u0103 sau s\u0103 se rezolve efectiv. \u00cen plus, se pot schimba un num\u0103r semnificativ de \u201em\u00e2ng\u00e2ieri\u201d, evit\u00e2ndu-se angajamentul cerut de \u201eapropiere\u201d \u0219i, mai presus de toate, se rezolv\u0103 \u00eentr-o oarecare m\u0103sur\u0103 o problem\u0103 destul de stresant\u0103 pentru mul\u021bi: cum s\u0103 petrecem timpul cu ceilal\u021bi.<br \/>\nUn ultim avantaj \u2013 \u00eentruc\u00e2t este un joc psihologic \u0219i una dintre cele mai bune modalit\u0103\u021bi de a NU rezolva o problem\u0103 \u2013 protagoni\u0219tii pot re\u00eencepe la nesf\u00e2r\u0219it f\u0103r\u0103 a-\u0219i schimba pozi\u021biile.<br \/>\nS\u0103 analiz\u0103m acum c\u00e2teva dintre cele mai comune \u0219i u\u0219or de recunoscut jocuri, dintr-o perspectiv\u0103 general\u0103.<br \/>\n\u00centr-un num\u0103r viitor, vom examina aceste acelea\u0219i mecanisme din perspectiva negocierilor comerciale \u0219i, \u00een m\u0103sura posibilului, vom oferi c\u00e2teva sfaturi despre cum s\u0103 evita\u021bi s\u0103 fi\u021bi prin\u0219i \u00een aceste jocuri care, a\u0219a cum am spus mai \u00eenainte, nu produc niciun rezultat pozitiv pentru niciuna dintre p\u0103r\u021bile implicate.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201eAl meu e mai bun\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Este cu siguran\u021b\u0103 unul dintre jocurile de baz\u0103, at\u00e2t de r\u0103sp\u00e2ndit \u00eenc\u00e2t prezen\u021ba sa cople\u0219itoare ne poate \u00eempiedica s\u0103-i vedem stupiditatea \u0219i inutilitatea. Este un joc \u00een care atitudinea \u201eEu sunt OK \u2013 Tu nu e\u0219ti OK\u201d devine evident\u0103.<br \/>\nEu (Persecutorul) \u00eencerc s\u0103-\u021bi demonstrez c\u0103 ceva legat de mine sau ceva ce de\u021bin este mai bun dec\u00e2t ceea ce e\u0219ti tu sau ceea ce ai tu, \u0219i te pun \u00een pozi\u021bia Victimei. Varia\u021biile sunt practic nelimitate. Acestea variaz\u0103 de la lucruri relativ inofensive precum \u201ecatalogul meu este mai bun, mai complet, mai actualizat\u2026\u201d, \u201estiloul meu\u201d, \u201ehaina mea\u201d, p\u00e2n\u0103 la lucruri mult mai serioase: \u201ereligia mea\u201d, \u201efiul meu\u201d, \u201eculoarea pielii mele\u201d \u0219i, mai departe, la o alt\u0103 categorie situat\u0103 \u00eentre cele dou\u0103 extreme: \u201ema\u0219ina mea\u201d, \u201efacultatea mea\u201d, \u201ematerialele mele de lectur\u0103\u201d, \u201eprietenii mei\u201d etc.<br \/>\nNot\u0103: Dac\u0103 critic ma\u0219ina cuiva pentru c\u0103 vreau s\u0103 i-o v\u00e2nd pe a mea, nu joc jocuri psihologice; folosesc o strategie de v\u00e2nzare (\u00een opinia mea, cea mai nepotrivit\u0103).<br \/>\nCaracteristica definitorie a acestui tip de joc este c\u0103 singurul s\u0103u scop este de a-l minimaliza pe cel\u0103lalt. Desigur, victima poate, la r\u00e2ndul s\u0103u, s\u0103 g\u0103seasc\u0103 ceva de criticat, iar jocul poate continua cu rolurile inversate.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201eNu-i groaznic?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Consist\u0103 \u00een g\u0103sirea acelui \u201ecoleg de suferin\u021b\u0103\u201d c\u0103ruia \u00eei po\u021bi povesti despre o situa\u021bie specific\u0103 \u0219i care va fi de acord cu tine, te va sus\u021bine \u0219i, la r\u00e2ndul s\u0103u, \u00ee\u021bi va \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219i o experien\u021b\u0103 personal\u0103 similar\u0103.<br \/>\nSubiectul pl\u00e2ngerilor poate varia \u00een func\u021bie de starea de spirit: vremea (\u201eNu se va \u00eenc\u0103lzi niciodat\u0103!\u201d), guvernul (\u201eSunt to\u021bi corup\u021bi \u0219i incompeten\u021bi\u201d), \u0219eful, tineretul de azi, func\u021bionarii publici, \u0219oferii de taxi, m\u00e2ncarea, s\u0103n\u0103tatea\u2026<br \/>\nDesigur, nimeni nu va mi\u0219ca un deget pentru a \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021bi lucrurile, chiar \u0219i atunci c\u00e2nd ar fi posibil. Este un joc foarte comun, dar nu deosebit de d\u0103un\u0103tor, chiar dac\u0103 este complet inutil (\u00eemi vine \u00een minte un vechi proverb peruvian: \u201eDac\u0103 exist\u0103 un remediu, de ce s\u0103 te pl\u00e2ngi? Dac\u0103 nu exist\u0103 remediu, de ce s\u0103 te pl\u00e2ngi?\u201d)<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201eLove\u0219te-m\u0103\u201d <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 li se ofer\u0103 ocazia, unii oameni se comport\u0103 \u00een public \u00eentr-un mod complet nepotrivit pentru situa\u021bia \u00een care se afl\u0103. F\u0103c\u00e2nd acest lucru, ei provoac\u0103 o reac\u021bie agresiv\u0103 din partea celor din jur, care devin atunci Persecutori \u0219i le dau o \u201elovitur\u0103\u201d (fie fizic \u2013 cum ar fi atunci c\u00e2nd cineva este dat afar\u0103 dintr-un restaurant \u2013 fie psihologic \u2013 \u201eS\u0103 nu te mai v\u0103d niciodat\u0103 pe aici\u201d).<br \/>\nAcest lucru le permite s\u0103 se pun\u0103 \u00een rolul Victimei \u0219i s\u0103 g\u0103seasc\u0103 cu u\u0219urin\u021b\u0103 pe cineva dispus s\u0103 joace rolul Salvatorului.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201eUite, mam\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 m\u00e2ini\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Este un joc pe care cred c\u0103 \u00eel juc\u0103m cu to\u021bii, din c\u00e2nd \u00een c\u00e2nd: c\u0103ut\u0103m un public \u00een fa\u021ba c\u0103ruia s\u0103 ne putem da mari, chiar exager\u00e2nd pu\u021bin meritele noastre. Nu este mare lucru, at\u00e2ta timp c\u00e2t nu devine un obicei.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201e\u00cencerc doar s\u0103 te ajut\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Un joc la care recurge cineva care manifest\u0103 un zel excesiv \u00een a ajuta un membru al familiei, un coleg de munc\u0103 etc. (Salvatorul), p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd obiectul unei astfel de aten\u021bii exagerate este \u201esufocat\u201d. \u00cen acest moment, rolul s\u0103u se transform\u0103 \u00een cel al Persecutorului, care d\u0103 vina pe Victim\u0103. (\u201eC\u00e2t de nerecunosc\u0103tor e\u0219ti, eu doar \u00eencerc s\u0103 te ajut!\u201d) Ulterior, s-ar putea s\u0103-\u0219i asume rolul Victimei, lament\u00e2ndu-se c\u0103 nimeni nu \u00eei apreciaz\u0103 eforturile.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201eAcum te-am prins, tic\u0103losule\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Implic\u0103 observarea modului \u00een care se comport\u0103 cineva (la locul de munc\u0103 sau \u00een societate) p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd se descoper\u0103 un defect. Acest defect este apoi folosit pentru a pune la \u00eendoial\u0103 caracterul persoanei respective \u0219i pentru a-i nega toate realiz\u0103rile anterioare.<br \/>\nPersoana care joac\u0103 rolul Persecutorului nu este deloc interesat\u0103, \u00een acest caz, de calitatea muncii (altfel, ar colabora pentru a g\u0103si o solu\u021bie), ci va c\u0103uta doar un pretext pentru a critica. Vei fi surprins s\u0103 observi c\u00e2t de multe persoane, ne g\u0103sind nicio gre\u0219eal\u0103 \u00een munca ta, vor fi dezam\u0103gite \u0219i critice \u00een loc s\u0103 te felicite\u2026<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201eDe ce nu \u2013 Da, dar\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Persoana cere o opinie sau un sfat, dar respinge sistematic tot ce i se ofer\u0103, argument\u00e2nd \u2014 mai mult sau mai pu\u021bin logic \u2014 c\u0103 solu\u021bia propus\u0103 nu va func\u021biona \u00een cazul s\u0103u (\u201eDa, dar\u2026\u201d). Acest lucru continu\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd cei care ofer\u0103 sfaturi (Salvatorii) obosesc \u0219i alunec\u0103 \u00een rolul de Persecutori (\u201eNimic nu va merge vreodat\u0103 pentru tine. P\u0103cat de tine\u2026\u201d), iar el alunec\u0103 \u00een rolul Victimei (\u201eNimeni nu m\u0103 \u00een\u021belege \u0219i nimeni nu vrea cu adev\u0103rat s\u0103 m\u0103 ajute\u201d).<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201eHai s\u0103 ne lupt\u0103m noi doi\u201d<\/strong><br \/>\n(cel pu\u021bin 3 juc\u0103tori)<\/p>\n<p>Un joc foarte insidios, \u00een timpul c\u0103ruia A va face tot posibilul s\u0103-i pun\u0103 pe B \u0219i C unul \u00eempotriva celuilalt, apoi se va pozi\u021biona \u00een afara conflictului (\u0219i astfel va trece la un alt joc numit \u201eAcum s\u0103 vedem ce ve\u021bi face\u201d). Am spus \u201einsidios\u201d deoarece, a\u0219a cum se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u00een toate jocurile, nimeni nu \u00ee\u0219i recunoa\u0219te deschis obiectivul, iar A ar putea nega \u00een orice moment c\u0103 i-a provocat \u00een mod deliberat pe ceilal\u021bi doi.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201eSala de judecat\u0103\u201d<\/strong><br \/>\n(cel pu\u021bin 3 juc\u0103tori)<\/p>\n<p>Este de obicei un joc \u201econjugal\u201d, dar apare la toate nivelurile vie\u021bii profesionale \u0219i de afaceri. A, care locuie\u0219te sau lucreaz\u0103 cu B, profit\u0103 de prezen\u021ba celorlal\u021bi pentru a-l critica dur pe B (care poate fi sau nu prezent). Ceilal\u021bi iau partea lui B sau se opun lui, care r\u0103m\u00e2ne, \u00een orice caz, izolat \u00een rolul de victim\u0103.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201ePicior de lemn\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Juc\u0103torul, care \u00een acest caz poart\u0103 efectiv o protez\u0103, se plaseaz\u0103 \u00een pozi\u021bia de victim\u0103 (\u201eCum a\u0219 putea s\u0103 fac ceva? Nu vede\u021bi c\u0103 am un picior de lemn?\u201d), sper\u00e2nd s\u0103 g\u0103seasc\u0103 un Salvator care s\u0103 se angajeze s\u0103-i rezolve problemele.<br \/>\nAcest exemplu serve\u0219te ca o metafor\u0103 pentru toate neajunsurile reale sau percepute de care ne pl\u00e2ngem \u0219i pe care le folosim ca scuz\u0103 pentru inac\u021biune (\u201eSunt prea scund\u201d, \u201eSunt negru\u201d, \u201eNu am bani\u201d, \u201eNu am studii\u201d, \u201eSunt\u2026\u201d, \u201eNu sunt\u2026\u201d, \u201eNu am\u2026\u201d), uit\u00e2nd c\u0103 al\u021bii, afla\u021bi \u00een aceea\u0219i situa\u021bie, au ob\u021binut rezultatele pe care \u0219i le-au propus (cititorii mai aten\u021bi vor observa c\u0103 am preluat acum rolul Persecutorului\u2026).<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201eRapo\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Este scenariul clasic \u00een care o femeie \u00eel tachineaz\u0103 pe un b\u0103rbat doar pentru a se retrage ulterior, numindu-l maniac \u0219i pervers \u0219i sus\u021bin\u00e2nd c\u0103 a fost \u00een\u021beleas\u0103 gre\u0219it.<br \/>\nDe fapt, este jocul perfid al puterii \u2013 jucat la toate nivelurile \u2013 care implic\u0103 prefacerea deschiderii fa\u021b\u0103 de cealalt\u0103 persoan\u0103, determin\u00e2nd-o astfel s\u0103 se dezv\u0103luie, doar pentru a lovi atunci c\u00e2nd \u0219i-a l\u0103sat garda jos.<br \/>\nEste unul dintre cele mai periculoase jocuri, care provoac\u0103 de obicei reac\u021bii violente.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201eAlcoolicul\u201d <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Un joc social la care pot participa multe persoane, \u00een diverse roluri.<br \/>\nAlcoolicul (Victima) se \u00eembat\u0103 deoarece, din punctul s\u0103u de vedere, via\u021ba \u2013 sau ceilal\u021bi \u2013 \u00eel persecut\u0103. So\u021bia sa, un prieten sau medicul de familie \u00eel consoleaz\u0103 (Salvatorii) \u0219i \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103-l dezv\u0103\u021beasc\u0103 de acest viciu.<br \/>\nUneori reu\u0219esc \u2013 pentru o scurt\u0103 perioad\u0103, p\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103toarea be\u021bie \u2013 \u0219i apoi totul o ia de la cap\u0103t. \u00centre timp, nu vor uita s\u0103-l chinuiasc\u0103 pe alcoolic (\u201eNu \u021bi-e ru\u0219ine? Uite ce ne faci vie\u021bilor noastre!\u201d). Acest exemplu serve\u0219te ca o metafor\u0103 pentru toate obiceiurile nedorite, dar percepute de persoana \u00een cauz\u0103 c e inevitabile (cel care \u00eent\u00e2rzie mereu, juc\u0103torul, persoana obez\u0103\u2026) \u0219i care, \u00eentr-un fel sau altul, \u00eei r\u0103nesc pe cei apropia\u021bi.<br \/>\nDesigur, nimeni nu se angajeaz\u0103 serios s\u0103 rezolve problema \u201ealcoolicului\u201d.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201eS\u0103 moar\u0103 capra vecinului\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Acest joc nu este inclus \u00een versiunea oficial\u0103 a Analizei Tranzac\u021bionale; mai degrab\u0103, este propria mea contribu\u021bie, care a prins contur \u00een timpul unei discu\u021bii cu un prieten (rom\u00e2n) deosebit de inteligent. Citind \u00een articolul anterior afirma\u021bia c\u0103 cineva aflat \u00een pozi\u021bia \u201eEu nu sunt OK \u2013 Tu nu e\u0219ti OK\u201d \u00ee\u0219i asum\u0103 un rol pasiv \u0219i particip\u0103 la jocuri ca victim\u0103, el m-a contrazis categoric, demonstr\u00e2nd c\u0103 este posibil s\u0103 men\u021bii aceea\u0219i pozi\u021bie chiar \u0219i atunci c\u00e2nd joci rolul activ al Persecutorului. Sau, a\u0219a cum mi-a explicat el, nu numai c\u0103 mul\u021bi oameni se bucur\u0103 \u0219i \u00ee\u0219i g\u0103sesc satisfac\u021bie \u00een a contempla nenorocirile altora (o situa\u021bie care se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 peste tot), dar fac tot ce le st\u0103 \u00een putin\u021b\u0103 pentru a se asigura c\u0103 cei care \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103-\u0219i \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021beasc\u0103 situa\u021bia e\u0219ueaz\u0103 \u00een eforturile lor, chiar dac\u0103 nu c\u00e2\u0219tig\u0103 nimic din asta.<br \/>\nEram de mult timp con\u0219tient de aceast\u0103 situa\u021bie \u00een Rusia postcomunist\u0103, unde primii fermieri care au \u00eenceput s\u0103 fac\u0103 afaceri cu str\u0103inii \u0219i-au g\u0103sit casele incendiate de vreun vecin invidios, dar speram c\u0103 Rom\u00e2nia va r\u0103m\u00e2ne imun\u0103 la aceast\u0103 problem\u0103.<br \/>\nDac\u0103, dintr-un punct de vedere psihologic \u2013 sau mai degrab\u0103 psihiatric \u2013 ar putea exista o explica\u021bie (persoana care reu\u0219e\u0219te acolo unde, \u00een acelea\u0219i condi\u021bii, eu nu reu\u0219esc, este dovada clar\u0103 a propriei mele inadecv\u0103ri \u0219i, din acest motiv, trebuie oprit\u0103 sau eliminat\u0103), din punctul de vedere al rezultatelor nu cred c\u0103 este nevoie s\u0103 demonstrez nebunia unui astfel de comportament, care nu reprezint\u0103 altceva dec\u00e2t un obstacol major \u00een calea cre\u0103rii unui mecanism economic-politic func\u021bional \u0219i productiv.<br \/>\nCe pot s\u0103 spun? Ca oaspete \u00een aceast\u0103 \u021bar\u0103, a\u0219 vrea s\u0103 sper c\u0103 prietenul meu filosof este un pesimist \u0219i c\u0103 situa\u021bia nu este chiar a\u0219a. Dac\u0103, pe de alt\u0103 parte, are dreptate\u2026 ei bine, atunci ie\u0219i imediat din acest joc \u0219i vei avea totul de c\u00e2\u0219tigat!<\/p>\n<p>Adesea, c\u00e2nd conduc seminarii pe tema jocurilor, unii oameni spun c\u0103 via\u021ba f\u0103r\u0103 jocuri ar fi monoton\u0103 \u0219i plictisitoare. Acest lucru confirm\u0103 opinia lui Berne c\u0103 oamenii sunt ata\u0219a\u021bi de propriile lor jocuri \u0219i nu sunt dispu\u0219i s\u0103 renun\u021be la ele cu u\u0219urin\u021b\u0103.<br \/>\nAdev\u0103rul este c\u0103, av\u00e2nd \u00een vedere natura incon\u0219tient\u0103 a particip\u0103rii \u0219i scopul principal de a schimba \u201eatingeri\u201d, poate fi foarte dificil s\u0103 ie\u0219i dintr-un joc. \u00cen plus, starea de Adult nu este folosit\u0103 corect \u2013 singura stare care ar rezolva situa\u021biile \u00een mod eficient \u0219i ne-ar permite s\u0103 realiz\u0103m c\u0103 este mult mai constructiv s\u0103 ne folosim energia pentru a rezolva probleme reale (care cu siguran\u021b\u0103 nu lipsesc), dec\u00e2t s\u0103 r\u0103spundem automat, a\u0219a cum am fost programa\u021bi s\u0103 facem: fie pl\u00e2ng\u00e2ndu-ne constant (Victima), fie \u00eencerc\u00e2nd s\u0103 ne facem dori\u021bi prin a ghici nevoile celorlal\u021bi (Salvatorul), fie critic\u00e2nd, atac\u00e2nd \u0219i minimaliz\u00e2nd pe ceilal\u021bi (Persecutorul).<br \/>\nCa de obicei, v\u0103 recomand s\u0103 v\u0103 folosi\u021bi puterea de observa\u021bie pentru a \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba s\u0103 recunoa\u0219te\u021bi \u201e\u00een via\u021ba real\u0103\u201d ceea ce am rezumat doar pe scurt aici, dar\u2026 fi\u021bi aten\u021bi \u2013 de data aceasta f\u0103r\u0103 a juca efectiv \u201eAnaliza tranzac\u021bional\u0103\u201d (a\u0219a cum Eric Berne a numit cu umor jocul cuiva care, dup\u0103 ce i-a citit cartea, s-a dedicat descoperirii jocurilor altora f\u0103r\u0103 a-\u0219i vedea propriul joc\u2026).<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Jocurile psihologice sunt schimburi incon\u0219tiente pe care le folosim pentru a atrage aten\u021bia, dar care se termin\u0103 \u00eentotdeauna prost. 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