{"id":2500,"date":"2005-01-10T21:58:21","date_gmt":"2005-01-10T21:58:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.brunomedicina.com\/2005\/01\/10\/cum-sa-nu-pierzi-din-vedere-ceea-ce-iti-doresti-cu-adevarat\/"},"modified":"2026-06-07T10:39:41","modified_gmt":"2026-06-07T10:39:41","slug":"cum-sa-nu-pierzi-din-vedere-ceea-ce-iti-doresti-cu-adevarat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.brunomedicina.com\/ro\/2005\/01\/10\/cum-sa-nu-pierzi-din-vedere-ceea-ce-iti-doresti-cu-adevarat\/","title":{"rendered":"Cum s\u0103 nu pierzi din vedere ceea ce \u00ee\u021bi dore\u0219ti cu adev\u0103rat"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-mq2wam0q-b512117d3c64380681746fb521dad5ac\">\n#top .av-special-heading.av-mq2wam0q-b512117d3c64380681746fb521dad5ac{\npadding-bottom:10px;\nfont-size:3vw;\n}\nbody .av-special-heading.av-mq2wam0q-b512117d3c64380681746fb521dad5ac .av-special-heading-tag 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.av-special-heading-tag{\nfont-size:46px;\n}\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='av-special-heading av-mq2wam0q-b512117d3c64380681746fb521dad5ac av-special-heading-h2 blockquote modern-quote  avia-builder-el-0  el_before_av_textblock  avia-builder-el-first  av-inherit-size'><h2 class='av-special-heading-tag '  itemprop=\"headline\"  >Cum s\u0103 nu pierzi din vedere ceea ce \u00ee\u021bi dore\u0219ti cu adev\u0103rat<\/h2><div class=\"special-heading-border\"><div class=\"special-heading-inner-border\"><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-bki70-d6e3c5d73575c106b69b79a6448df226\">\n#top .av_textblock_section.av-bki70-d6e3c5d73575c106b69b79a6448df226 .avia_textblock{\nfont-size:17px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<section  class='av_textblock_section av-bki70-d6e3c5d73575c106b69b79a6448df226 '   itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-2478 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/www.brunomedicina.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2005\/01\/target.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"440\" height=\"293\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.brunomedicina.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2005\/01\/target.jpg 700w, https:\/\/www.brunomedicina.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2005\/01\/target-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 440px) 100vw, 440px\" \/><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><em>\u201eLas\u0103-te purtat \u00een t\u0103cere de for\u021ba irezistibil\u0103 a ceea ce iube\u0219ti cu adev\u0103rat.\u201d<\/em><br \/>\n<em>Rumi, poet sufi<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<h2>De ce e\u0219ueaz\u0103 majoritatea rezolu\u021biilor de Anul Nou<\/h2>\n<p>Obiective \u0219i rezolu\u021bii?<br \/>\nPrimul g\u00e2nd care \u00eemi vine \u00een minte este, desigur, c\u0103, \u00een ciuda \u201eunicit\u0103\u021bii\u201d noastre \u0219i a marii variet\u0103\u021bi de situa\u021bii posibile, se pare c\u0103 suntem cu to\u021bii la fel c\u00e2nd vine vorba de ceea ce ne propunem s\u0103 realiz\u0103m \u00een noul an.<\/p>\n<p>Probabil c\u0103 \u021bi-ai stabilit obiective personale sau legate de s\u0103n\u0103tate pentru 2005 (a \u021bine o diet\u0103, a renun\u021ba la fumat, a \u00eencepe un program de fitness&#8230;), poate unele profesionale (trimiterea de CV-uri, solicitarea unei m\u0103riri de salariu, \u00eenceperea unuia sau mai multor proiecte&#8230;), legate de studiu sau dezvoltare personal\u0103 (\u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021birea abilit\u0103\u021bilor de utilizare a computerului, \u00eenv\u0103\u021barea unei limbi str\u0103ine, citirea unor c\u0103r\u021bi&#8230;) sau sociale\/rela\u021bionale (petrecerea mai mult timp cu familia, vizitarea unor prieteni, scrierea unor e-mailuri&#8230;) \u0219i a\u0219a mai departe.<\/p>\n<p>Dar, av\u00e2nd \u00een vedere c\u0103 au trecut deja dou\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni \u00eentregi de la \u00eenceputul anului, dac\u0103 e\u0219ti ca majoritatea oamenilor, este foarte probabil c\u0103 ai \u00eenceput deja s\u0103 fumezi din nou, ai renun\u021bat la diet\u0103, te-ai s\u0103turat de sala de sport, te-ai convins c\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021barea unei limbi str\u0103ine poate a\u0219tepta, nu g\u0103se\u0219ti timp pentru familie sau e-mailuri, CV-urile tale nu sunt gata, iar condi\u021biile nu sunt \u00eenc\u0103 potrivite pentru proiecte noi&#8230; Chiar trebuie s\u0103 continui?<\/p>\n<p>Nimic din toate acestea nu se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 ca urmare a unei alegeri ra\u021bionale, ci pur \u0219i simplu pentru c\u0103 ne l\u0103s\u0103m condu\u0219i de lene \u0219i iner\u021bie \u0219i ne pedepsim cu repertoriul obi\u0219nuit de justific\u0103ri, repro\u0219uri, autoacuz\u0103ri \u0219i frustr\u0103ri \u2014 care nu au alt rezultat dec\u00e2t s\u0103 ne strice starea de spirit \u0219i s\u0103 ne fac\u0103 s\u0103 sim\u021bim c\u0103 nu ne ridic\u0103m la \u00een\u0103l\u021bimea a\u0219tept\u0103rilor.<\/p>\n<h2>Problema cu stabilirea tradi\u021bional\u0103 a obiectivelor<\/h2>\n<p>Este foarte probabil ca, dup\u0103 aceast\u0103 introducere, s\u0103 te a\u0219tep\u021bi la \u0219irul obi\u0219nuit de sfaturi \u0219i tehnici \u201e\u00een stil american\u201d despre cum trebuie s\u0103 alegem obiective motivante, s\u0103 stabilim priorit\u0103\u021bi, s\u0103 preg\u0103tim un plan \u0219i a\u0219a mai departe.<\/p>\n<p>Exist\u0103 sute, poate <strong>mii de articole \u0219i c\u0103r\u021bi pe aceast\u0103 tem\u0103, care nu fac altceva dec\u00e2t s\u0103 propun\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 repropun\u0103 aceea\u0219i formul\u0103 \u00een toate variantele posibile:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Stabile\u0219te-\u021bi obiectivele<\/li>\n<li>Elaboreaz\u0103 un plan<\/li>\n<li>Pune-l \u00een practic\u0103<\/li>\n<li>Verific\u0103 rezultatele \u0219i f\u0103 modific\u0103rile necesare<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Aceast\u0103 formul\u0103, aparent at\u00e2t de simpl\u0103 \u0219i perfect\u0103, are un defect: pur \u0219i simplu nu func\u021bioneaz\u0103<\/strong>, cel pu\u021bin nu \u00een forma sa actual\u0103. Dac\u0103 ar func\u021biona, am fi cu to\u021bii oameni de mare succes; totu\u0219i, \u00een realitate, se pare c\u0103 \u0219tim ce vrem, \u0219tim cum s\u0103 ob\u021binem ceea ce vrem, dar \u201eceva\u201d ne opre\u0219te c\u00e2nd vine vorba de a trece la ac\u021biune.<\/p>\n<p>A\u0219adar, \u00een loc s\u0103 repet\u0103m cli\u0219eele obi\u0219nuite despre \u201esucces\u201d \u0219i \u201eobiective\u201d, pe care le po\u021bi auzi \u0219i citi peste tot, hai s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 privim lucrurile dintr-o perspectiv\u0103 diferit\u0103, pentru a vedea dac\u0103 exist\u0103 ceva care ne poate scoate din aceast\u0103 rutin\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>A\u0219adar, ia-\u021bi lista cu obiectivele, promisiunile \u0219i rezolu\u021biile de Anul Nou \u0219i arunc\u0103 o prim\u0103 privire asupra ei. Ce zici? Nu ai notat-o? Ei bine, asta face parte din problem\u0103, evident, \u0219i vom vedea ce se poate face. Deocamdat\u0103, ia-\u021bi cinci minute \u0219i noteaz-o ACUM.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Not\u0103: noteaz-o efectiv, pentru c\u0103 altfel nu are rost s\u0103 cite\u0219ti acest articol<\/strong>; \u0219i noteaz\u0103 exact ce \u021bi-ai propus s\u0103 faci la \u00eenceputul anului, nu ce g\u00e2nde\u0219ti acum. Haide, au trecut doar dou\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni \u2014 nu ar trebui s\u0103 fie at\u00e2t de greu! \u0218i chiar dac\u0103 afl\u0103m c\u0103 ne-am \u00eenc\u0103lcat promisiunile, \u0219tim deja asta oricum&#8230;<\/p>\n<h2>Obiectivele pe care le dorim vs. obiectivele pe care \u201ear trebui\u201d s\u0103 le dorim<\/h2>\n<p>Acum uit\u0103-te atent la lista ta \u0219i pune-\u021bi urm\u0103toarele \u00eentreb\u0103ri:<\/p>\n<p><strong>C\u00e2te dintre aceste obiective sunt cu adev\u0103rat \u201eale mele\u201d?<\/strong><br \/>\nCu alte cuvinte: vreau s\u0103 sl\u0103besc pentru c\u0103 m\u0103 voi sim\u021bi mai bine sau pentru c\u0103 asta recomand\u0103 revistele de mod\u0103? Vreau s\u0103 renun\u021b la fumat pentru MINE sau vreau s\u0103 fac pe placul altcuiva? Vreau s\u0103 fac lucruri pentru mine sau doar pentru a ar\u0103ta c\u0103 le-am f\u0103cut? \u00cencerc oare s\u0103 fac ceea ce lumea a\u0219teapt\u0103 de la mine?<br \/>\nO \u00eentrebare foarte simpl\u0103 pentru a clarifica acest lucru este: dac\u0103 a\u0219 atinge un anumit obiectiv, oricare ar fi acesta, dar nu mi s-ar permite s\u0103-l ar\u0103t sau s\u0103 spun nim\u0103nui \u2013 astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t doar eu s\u0103 \u0219tiu c\u0103 l-am atins! \u2013 ar mai avea aceea\u0219i importan\u021b\u0103?<\/p>\n<h2>Greutatea a\u0219tept\u0103rilor externe<\/h2>\n<p>Vezi tu, nu este nimic gre\u0219it \u00een a urm\u0103ri obiective \u201epublice\u201d, dar aici \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 ne d\u0103m seama unde se afl\u0103 rezisten\u021ba.<br \/>\nAdic\u0103, vom separa obiectivele pe care \u201ele vrem\u201d de cele pe care \u201ear trebui\u201d s\u0103 le atingem.<br \/>\nA\u0219adar, taie toate obiectivele pe care sim\u021bi c\u0103 \u021bi le impun din exterior: p\u0103rin\u021bii, \u0219efii, mass-media, religia&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Ai f\u0103cut-o? E greu, nu-i a\u0219a? S\u0103 continu\u0103m s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 identific\u0103m lucrurile pe care \u201ear trebui\u201d s\u0103 le facem:<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e2te dintre aceste obiective au mai mult de un an vechime?<br \/>\nAcesta este semnul cel mai clar c\u0103 \u201ear trebui\u201d s\u0103 facem acel lucru.<br \/>\n<strong>Dac\u0103 \u00een fiecare an \u00ee\u021bi spui c\u0103 \u201ear trebui\u201d s\u0103 sl\u0103be\u0219ti \u0219i \u00eenc\u0103 nu ai f\u0103cut-o, poate \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 te sim\u021bi bine a\u0219a cum e\u0219ti.<\/strong><br \/>\nDac\u0103 de ani de zile \u00ee\u021bi spui c\u0103 \u201ear trebui\u201d s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021bi franceza, s\u0103-\u021bi schimbi locul de munc\u0103 sau s\u0103 pui cap\u0103t unei rela\u021bii \u0219i nu ai f\u0103cut-o, \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 nu e\u0219ti at\u00e2t de motivat.<br \/>\n\u00centrebarea este: <strong>dac\u0103 cineva te-ar fi amenin\u021bat cu o arm\u0103 sau \u021bi-ar fi oferit un milion de euro, ai fi reu\u0219it? Da? Deci, vezi tu, nu este vorba despre abilitate.<\/strong><br \/>\nA\u0219adar, \u00eenc\u0103 o dat\u0103, \u0219terge aceste obiective.<\/p>\n<h2>Iluzia \u201e\u00eentr-o zi\u201d<\/h2>\n<p>Not\u0103: Fii atent la reac\u021biile tale pe m\u0103sur\u0103 ce \u0219tergi aceste obiective. Cum te sim\u021bi? \u00ce\u021bi pare r\u0103u? De obicei, suntem foarte ata\u0219a\u021bi de aceste \u201ear trebui\u201d. Auzi o voce care \u00ee\u021bi spune: \u201eNu ai voie s\u0103 le \u0219tergi\u201d?<br \/>\n\u021aine minte c\u0103, dac\u0103 \u0219tergi ceva acum, asta nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 nu o vei face \u00een viitor; \u00een acest moment, faci doar un experiment.<br \/>\n\u00cen plus, dac\u0103 nu o \u0219tergi, dar nu o faci (\u0219i dac\u0103 nu ai f\u0103cut-o \u00eentr-un an, e greu de crezut c\u0103 o vei face acum), ce se schimb\u0103? Nu e acela\u0219i lucru?<\/p>\n<h2>Lucrurile pe care le am\u00e2n\u0103m nu exist\u0103<\/h2>\n<p>Nu, nu este. De aceea este at\u00e2t de greu s\u0103 le \u0219tergem. At\u00e2ta timp c\u00e2t le avem \u00een fa\u021ba noastr\u0103 \u0219i nu facem nimic, sunt doar lucruri pe care le-am am\u00e2nat; dar dac\u0103 le \u0219tergem, devin lucruri la care am renun\u021bat!<br \/>\n<strong>Bine, voi profita de aceast\u0103 ocazie pentru a-\u021bi spune un secret: lucrurile pe care le-am am\u00e2nat NU EXIST\u0102.<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong> Lucrurile sunt fie f\u0103cute, fie nef\u0103cute.<\/strong><br \/>\nCele \u201eam\u00e2nate\u201d sunt lucrurile pe care nu le facem, dar despre care spunem c\u0103 le vom face mai devreme sau mai t\u00e2rziu \u00een viitor. \u0218i se pare c\u0103 a ne \u00een\u0219ela pe noi \u00een\u0219ine este o activitate obi\u0219nuit\u0103 pentru majoritatea oamenilor.<br \/>\nPe de alt\u0103 parte, a decide s\u0103 nu facem ceva \u00eenseamn\u0103 a lua o decizie, a ne asuma responsabilitatea pentru propriile noastre vie\u021bi.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen acest moment, lista ta ar trebui s\u0103 fie mult mai scurt\u0103.<br \/>\nDar hai s\u0103 mai facem un lucru: s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 examin\u0103m lucrurile pe care \u201etrebuie neap\u0103rat\u201d s\u0103 le facem.<br \/>\nCe se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 dac\u0103 nu le facem? Ce se pierde? Cine are de pierdut? Deocamdat\u0103, taie de pe list\u0103 sarcinile pe care le consideri \u201eobliga\u021bii\u201d (Not\u0103: dac\u0103 nu le-ai f\u0103cut p\u00e2n\u0103 acum, poate c\u0103 nu sunt chiar at\u00e2t de obligatorii&#8230;)<\/p>\n<h2>Libertatea de a renun\u021ba<\/h2>\n<p>Examineaz\u0103 ce a mai r\u0103mas (dac\u0103 nu \u021bi-a mai r\u0103mas nimic de f\u0103cut, situa\u021bia este pu\u021bin grav\u0103; vom vedea \u00een viitor ce se poate face \u00een acest sens).<br \/>\nCum te sim\u021bi? Vinovat? U\u0219urat? Mai liber? Dac\u0103 ai avut cu adev\u0103rat curajul s\u0103 la\u0219i deoparte obiectivele pe care nu le percepi cu adev\u0103rat ca fiind \u201eale tale\u201d, sentimentul este de obicei unul de libertate \u0219i u\u0219urare, sentimentul c\u0103 s-a f\u0103cut o alegere. Adic\u0103, se pare c\u0103 oricum nu vrem sau nu putem face o serie de lucruri, a\u0219a c\u0103 nu are rost s\u0103 ne min\u021bim singuri spun\u00e2nd c\u0103 le vom face. Mai bine s\u0103 renun\u021b\u0103m la ele pentru moment.<br \/>\nDar, mai presus de toate, c\u00e2nd facem aceast\u0103 alegere, sentimentul este c\u0103 s-a creat \u00een sf\u00e2r\u0219it spa\u021biu pentru altceva \u2013 pentru ceva ce ne dorim cu adev\u0103rat!<\/p>\n<p>Vezi, pune lista deoparte pentru o clip\u0103 \u0219i g\u00e2nde\u0219te-te c\u00e2teva secunde.<br \/>\n<strong>De ce urm\u0103rim obiective? Pentru obiectivele \u00een sine? Nu, desigur c\u0103 nu.<\/strong><br \/>\nObiectivele aduc cu ele noi moduri de via\u021b\u0103, oameni noi, situa\u021bii noi; urm\u0103rim obiectivele \u00een principal pentru c\u0103 \u0219tim c\u0103 vom cre\u0219te ca oameni.<\/p>\n<h2>De ce obiectivele nu sunt adev\u0103ratul obiectiv<\/h2>\n<p>De fapt, cea mai mare gre\u0219eal\u0103 este tocmai s\u0103 credem c\u0103 obiectivele \u0219i realiz\u0103rile au sens \u0219i valoare \u00een sine, c\u00e2nd singura lor valoare este genul de oameni \u00een care ne transform\u0103m odat\u0103 ce acel obiectiv a fost atins.<\/p>\n<p>S\u0103 ne oprim un moment pentru a ne revedea lista cu ceea ce a mai r\u0103mas \u0219i s\u0103 ad\u0103ug\u0103m c\u00e2teva elemente \u00een plus dac\u0103 acum este prea mult spa\u021biu gol sau dac\u0103 sim\u021bim nevoia.<br \/>\n\u0218i s\u0103 ne punem aceast\u0103 \u00eentrebare: Ce fel de persoan\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 devin pentru a atinge aceste obiective?<br \/>\nMai organizat, mai activ, mai dinamic, mai&#8230; ?<br \/>\nCe a\u0219 face dac\u0103 le-a\u0219 atinge? Ce a\u0219 spune, ce a\u0219 g\u00e2ndi? Cum m-a\u0219 mi\u0219ca, cum m-a\u0219 \u00eembr\u0103ca?<br \/>\n\u00cencearc\u0103 s\u0103 descrii aceast\u0103 persoan\u0103 care ar fi capabil\u0103 s\u0103 ating\u0103 aceste obiective, \u00een scris dac\u0103 este posibil.<\/p>\n<h2>Devenind persoana care le poate atinge<\/h2>\n<p>Ai f\u0103cut-o? Chiar ai f\u0103cut-o?<br \/>\nBine, acum \u00eentreab\u0103-te: este aceast\u0103 persoan\u0103 pe care am descris-o at\u00e2t de spectaculoas\u0103? Este el sau ea un fel de Superman sau Wonder Woman? Este ceva complet de neatins?<br \/>\nSau suntem pur \u0219i simplu noi \u00een\u0219ine atunci c\u00e2nd ne exprim\u0103m liber, f\u0103r\u0103 inhibi\u021bii, c\u00e2nd apel\u0103m la resursele pe care \u0219tim c\u0103 le de\u021binem, dar pe care le \u021binem ascunse din lene sau fric\u0103, c\u00e2nd \u0219tim c\u0103 ne \u00eendrept\u0103m \u00eentr-o direc\u021bie pe care o percepem cu adev\u0103rat ca fiind \u201ea noastr\u0103\u201d?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ar fi bine s\u0103 ne amintim c\u0103 fiecare obiectiv, fiecare obiectiv \u201eadev\u0103rat\u201d, nu serve\u0219te dec\u00e2t s\u0103 ne ajute s\u0103 ne descoperim pe noi \u00een\u0219ine;<\/strong> este un pas c\u0103tre realizarea sinelui nostru cel mai autentic \u0219i profund.<\/p>\n<h2>Sinele t\u0103u superior \u0219i motiva\u021bia autentic\u0103<\/h2>\n<p>Dar, re\u021bine, \u0219i acest lucru poate p\u0103rea paradoxal: pentru ca procesul s\u0103 func\u021bioneze, el trebuie s\u0103 se desf\u0103\u0219oare \u00een direc\u021bia opus\u0103 celei \u00een care se crede de obicei c\u0103 se desf\u0103\u0219oar\u0103: \u00eencercarea de a atinge anumite obiective \u00een speran\u021ba de a exprima \u0219i dezvolta anumite calit\u0103\u021bi nu func\u021bioneaz\u0103; \u00een schimb, trebuie s\u0103 ne concentr\u0103m pe g\u0103sirea \u0219i recunoa\u0219terea propriilor noastre calit\u0103\u021bi \u0219i abilit\u0103\u021bi, iar obiectivele \u0219i realiz\u0103rile nu vor fi altceva dec\u00e2t o manifestare concret\u0103 \u0219i inevitabil\u0103 a acestui proces de \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021bire.<br \/>\nA\u0219a cum a spus cineva odat\u0103: <strong>dac\u0103 vrei s\u0103 c\u00e2\u0219tigi un milion de dolari, trebuie mai \u00eent\u00e2i s\u0103 devii genul de persoan\u0103 care c\u00e2\u0219tig\u0103 un milion de dolari.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00cen articolul urm\u0103tor, vom analiza c\u00e2teva metode unice de a descoperi obiective cu adev\u0103rat interesante \u0219i motivante. Deocamdat\u0103, \u00eencearc\u0103 acest exerci\u021biu pentru a descrie persoana care trebuie s\u0103 devii: te asigur c\u0103 descoperirea \u0219i conectarea cu sinele t\u0103u superior pot fi extraordinar de surprinz\u0103toare \u0219i motivante.<\/p>\n<p>Mult succes!<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Obiectivele conteaz\u0103 mult mai pu\u021bin dec\u00e2t felul de persoan\u0103 \u00een care ne transform\u0103m \u00een timp ce le urm\u0103rim: adesea urm\u0103rim obiective impuse de societate, de a\u0219tept\u0103ri, de sentimentul de vinov\u0103\u021bie sau de compara\u021bie \u2014 pierz\u00e2nd din vedere ceea ce ne dorim cu adev\u0103rat.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2482,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[35,8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2500","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-article","category-uncategorized-ro"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v27.6 (Yoast SEO v27.7) - 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