{"id":3384,"date":"2015-06-01T16:15:48","date_gmt":"2015-06-01T16:15:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.brunomedicina.com\/2015\/06\/01\/unicitate-carisma-si-libertate-absoluta\/"},"modified":"2026-09-23T20:25:22","modified_gmt":"2026-09-23T20:25:22","slug":"unicitate-carisma-si-libertate-absoluta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.brunomedicina.com\/ro\/2015\/06\/01\/unicitate-carisma-si-libertate-absoluta\/","title":{"rendered":"Unicitate, carism\u0103 \u0219i libertate absolut\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-mucvm67q-6a5f1bdba955425cdb87d36a8a153c2b\">\n#top .av-special-heading.av-mucvm67q-6a5f1bdba955425cdb87d36a8a153c2b{\npadding-bottom:10px;\nfont-size:3vw;\n}\nbody .av-special-heading.av-mucvm67q-6a5f1bdba955425cdb87d36a8a153c2b .av-special-heading-tag .heading-char{\nfont-size:25px;\n}\n#top #wrap_all .av-special-heading.av-mucvm67q-6a5f1bdba955425cdb87d36a8a153c2b .av-special-heading-tag{\nfont-size:3vw;\n}\n.av-special-heading.av-mucvm67q-6a5f1bdba955425cdb87d36a8a153c2b .av-subheading{\nfont-size:15px;\n}\n\n@media only screen and (min-width: 990px){ \n#top #wrap_all .av-special-heading.av-mucvm67q-6a5f1bdba955425cdb87d36a8a153c2b .av-special-heading-tag{\nfont-size:46px;\n}\n}\n\n@media only screen and (min-width: 768px) and (max-width: 989px){ \n#top #wrap_all .av-special-heading.av-mucvm67q-6a5f1bdba955425cdb87d36a8a153c2b .av-special-heading-tag{\nfont-size:46px;\n}\n}\n\n@media only screen and (min-width: 480px) and (max-width: 767px){ \n#top #wrap_all .av-special-heading.av-mucvm67q-6a5f1bdba955425cdb87d36a8a153c2b .av-special-heading-tag{\nfont-size:46px;\n}\n}\n\n@media only screen and (max-width: 479px){ \n#top #wrap_all .av-special-heading.av-mucvm67q-6a5f1bdba955425cdb87d36a8a153c2b .av-special-heading-tag{\nfont-size:46px;\n}\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='av-special-heading av-mucvm67q-6a5f1bdba955425cdb87d36a8a153c2b av-special-heading-h2 blockquote modern-quote  avia-builder-el-0  el_before_av_textblock  avia-builder-el-first  av-inherit-size'><h2 class='av-special-heading-tag '  itemprop=\"headline\"  >Unicitate, carism\u0103 \u0219i libertate absolut\u0103<\/h2><div class=\"special-heading-border\"><div class=\"special-heading-inner-border\"><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-21012x-27897193d74b26141972a92071cbb7df\">\n#top .av_textblock_section.av-21012x-27897193d74b26141972a92071cbb7df .avia_textblock{\nfont-size:17px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<section  class='av_textblock_section av-21012x-27897193d74b26141972a92071cbb7df '   itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-3371 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/www.brunomedicina.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/InFlowWithTheInfinite.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"441\" height=\"293\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.brunomedicina.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/InFlowWithTheInfinite.png 700w, https:\/\/www.brunomedicina.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/InFlowWithTheInfinite-300x200.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 441px) 100vw, 441px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Realizat \u00een mai 2015, cu ocazia conferin\u021bei \u201eLead Your Life\u201d. Interviu sus\u021binut de Cristina Ivan, publicat pe site-ul evenimentului<\/p>\n<p>&#8211;-<\/p>\n<p><em>Bruno Medicina vorbe\u0219te despre ceea ce se afl\u0103 dincolo de performan\u021b\u0103 \u0219i de rezultatele imediate, ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 cu adev\u0103rat competen\u021ba, cum s\u0103-\u021bi define\u0219ti succesul \u00een proprii termeni \u0219i de ce unicitatea, libertatea \u0219i viziunea conteaz\u0103 mai mult dec\u00e2t conformismul.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Bruno este coach, trainer, autor \u0219i speaker, cu peste 30 de ani de experien\u021b\u0103 \u00een dezvoltare personal\u0103 \u0219i cu un parcurs profesional care acoper\u0103 business, psihologia, muzica \u0219i sportul.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>El \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219e\u0219te at\u00e2t experien\u021ba personal\u0103, c\u00e2t \u0219i cea profesional\u0103, printr-o abordare neconven\u021bional\u0103, folosind prelegeri \u0219i sesiuni de formare pentru a ajuta oamenii s\u0103-\u0219i descopere poten\u021bialul \u0219i s\u0103-\u0219i \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021beasc\u0103 performan\u021ba \u00een diferite domenii ale vie\u021bii.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Dincolo de repertoriul standard de formare, el a dezvoltat o serie de seminarii originale care includ experien\u021be de mare impact, precum mersul pe c\u0103rbuni \u00eencin\u0219i (seminariul \u201eFire Up Your Power\u201d) \u0219i spargerea pl\u0103cilor de lemn (FLY \u2013 Find the Leader in You), al\u0103turi de programe care exploreaz\u0103 psihologia evolu\u021bionist\u0103, teoria jocurilor, neuromarketingul \u0219i memetica.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>La momentul realiz\u0103rii acestui interviu, cel mai recent program al s\u0103u era \u201eFlowing to Success: The F.L.O.W. System\u201d, bazat pe cercet\u0103ri privind starea de flux \u0219i aplica\u021biile acesteia \u00een afaceri, sport \u0219i via\u021ba de zi cu zi.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Modelul \u201eThe Predator\u2019s Way\u201d a reunit multe dintre temele pe care le cercetase de ani de zile: identitatea, poten\u021bialul, performan\u021ba, libertatea \u0219i posibilitatea de a te reconecta cu ceea ce face ca fiecare persoan\u0103 s\u0103 fie unic\u0103.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>Teorie, practic\u0103 \u0219i competen\u021b\u0103 real\u0103<\/h2>\n<p><strong>Cristina Ivan:<\/strong> \u0218tii \u0219i faci at\u00e2t de multe lucruri: e\u0219ti performance coach, trainer, consultant, autor \u0219i conferen\u021biar; practici arte mar\u021biale \u0219i ai studiat muzica \u0219i filosofia. Cum ai \u00eenceput aceast\u0103 c\u0103l\u0103torie de descoperire de sine? Ce te-a motivat s\u0103 te cuno\u0219ti pe tine \u00eensu\u021bi? Ce te-a inspirat?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bruno Medicina: <\/strong>Multe lucruri au venit pur \u0219i simplu \u00een mod natural. Nu m-a inspirat nimic anume. Am citit mult \u00eenc\u0103 din copil\u0103rie, dar la \u0219coal\u0103 eram un dezastru. Am absolvit Conservatorul, dar diploma \u00een sine nu mi-a fost de niciun folos. La fel s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat \u0219i cu cea de filosofie. Am fost \u00eentotdeauna genul de persoan\u0103 care reflecteaz\u0103 intens asupra lucrurilor, \u00eencerc\u00e2nd s\u0103 v\u0103d dincolo de ceea ce este evident. A\u0219adar, \u00een c\u0103utarea mea de a-mi \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021bi performan\u021ba, mi-am pus constant dou\u0103 \u00eentreb\u0103ri: \u201eCe este performan\u021ba, dincolo de simple rezultate?\u201d \u0219i \u201eCe poate fi \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021bit?\u201d. Drept urmare, am \u00eencercat \u00eentotdeauna s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b de la cei mai buni.<\/p>\n<p>Acest lucru a modelat un mod de g\u00e2ndire care deranjeaz\u0103 multe persoane. De exemplu, din principiu, m\u0103 \u00eendoiesc de cei care se prezint\u0103 cu o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de diplome \u0219i certificate. Desigur, o preg\u0103tire serioas\u0103 \u00een orice domeniu este extrem de important\u0103, dar uneori oamenii se ascund \u00een spatele calific\u0103rilor pentru ca ceea ce \u0219tiu s\u0103 nu poat\u0103 fi pus la \u00eendoial\u0103. Este ca \u0219i cum ai purta o centur\u0103 neagr\u0103 \u00een speran\u021ba de a-\u021bi intimida adversarul pentru a nu fi nevoit s\u0103 lup\u021bi cu adev\u0103rat.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cristina Ivan:<\/strong> Este vorba despre conflictul dintre teorie \u0219i practic\u0103. Care are prioritate: teoria sau practica?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bruno Medicina: <\/strong>Este ve\u0219nica \u00eentrebare, dar cred c\u0103 este formulat\u0103 gre\u0219it. Pentru fiecare decizie \u0219i fiecare ac\u021biune, avem nevoie de o anumit\u0103 teorie: un model de cauz\u0103 \u0219i efect. Dac\u0103 teoria nu corespunde practicii, \u00eenseamn\u0103 pur \u0219i simplu c\u0103 teoria este gre\u0219it\u0103. Problema nu este teoria \u00een sine, ci faptul c\u0103 unele persoane \u2014 mai ales \u00een sistemul educa\u021bional, de\u0219i nu doar acolo \u2014 continu\u0103 s\u0103 repete teorii pe care le-au citit doar, f\u0103r\u0103 a le pune vreodat\u0103 la \u00eencercare \u00een practic\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Gustave Le Bon a subliniat un aspect pe care l-a\u0219 rezuma astfel: c\u0103r\u021bile sunt extrem de utile, dar prezint\u0103 \u0219i un pericol \u2013 pot crea un fals sentiment de competen\u021b\u0103. Conflictul dintre teorie \u0219i practic\u0103 devine distructiv atunci c\u00e2nd, dup\u0103 ob\u021binerea unei diplome, \u00eencepi s\u0103 crezi c\u0103 ceea ce \u0219tii nu mai poate fi pus la \u00eendoial\u0103. Dac\u0103 urm\u0103re\u0219ti performan\u021ba \u00eentr-un domeniu \u00een care realitatea \u00ee\u021bi ofer\u0103 feedback constant \u2013 cum ar fi v\u00e2nz\u0103rile, afacerile sau sportul \u2013 o diplom\u0103 devine \u00een mare m\u0103sur\u0103 irelevant\u0103. Iar \u00een domeniile care se schimb\u0103 rapid, ceea ce a func\u021bionat ieri s-ar putea s\u0103 nu mai func\u021bioneze ast\u0103zi.<\/p>\n<p>Mul\u021bi oameni, mai ales \u00een Rom\u00e2nia, sunt obseda\u021bi de diplome. Au at\u00e2t de pu\u021bin\u0103 \u00eencredere \u00een ei \u00een\u0219i\u0219i \u00eenc\u00e2t se simt f\u0103r\u0103 valoare f\u0103r\u0103 acele buc\u0103\u021bi de h\u00e2rtie. \u00ce\u0219i etaleaz\u0103 diplomele cu acela\u0219i entuziasm cu care \u00ee\u0219i etaleaz\u0103 lan\u021burile de aur sau ma\u0219inile scumpe. Eu cred, dimpotriv\u0103, c\u0103 fiecare dintre noi \u00ee\u0219i dovede\u0219te valoarea \u00een fiecare zi prin rezultatele pe care le ob\u021bine. Dac\u0103 ai citit multe c\u0103r\u021bi, foarte bine \u2013 dar dac\u0103 nu ai pus niciodat\u0103 \u00een practic\u0103 ceea ce ai \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat, nu-\u021bi este de mare folos. Acest lucru este valabil indiferent dac\u0103 vorbim despre yoga, filosofie, literatur\u0103 sau o abilitate tehnic\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Pe scurt, <strong>a \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba ceva \u00eenseamn\u0103 a-\u021bi schimba comportamentul. Dac\u0103 ai citit sau \u0219tii un milion de lucruri, dar niciunul dintre ele nu schimb\u0103 ceea ce faci de fapt, cuno\u0219tin\u021bele respective sunt inutile.<\/strong> Dac\u0103 citesc mult despre nutri\u021bie \u0219i continui s\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nc m\u00e2ncare nes\u0103n\u0103toas\u0103, toat\u0103 acea lectur\u0103 nu m\u0103 face mai s\u0103n\u0103tos.<\/p>\n<h2>Succesul, leadershipul \u0219i unicitatea<\/h2>\n<p><strong>Cristina Ivan:<\/strong> Cum se leag\u0103 performan\u021ba \u0219i abilit\u0103\u021bile de ideea de succes? Fac ele parte din succes? Cum ai defini succesul?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bruno Medicina: <\/strong>\u00cen italian\u0103, cuv\u00e2ntul \u201esuccesso\u201d este \u0219i participiul trecut al verbului \u201esuccedere\u201d, \u201ea se \u00eent\u00e2mpla\u201d. A\u0219adar, \u00eentr-un sens foarte literal, orice s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat este deja un \u201esucces\u201d. Adev\u0103rata \u00eentrebare este dac\u0103 ceea ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat este ceea ce \u021bi-ai dorit s\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mple. Dac\u0103 nu este, o percepi ca pe un e\u0219ec.<\/p>\n<p>Societatea ne impune un model de succes care serve\u0219te propriilor sale interese. Societatea are nevoie de oameni care s\u0103 alerge ne\u00eencetat, s\u0103 produc\u0103 c\u00e2t mai mult posibil \u0219i s\u0103 bifeze c\u00e2t mai multe sarcini. Eu am ales o abordare calitativ\u0103, mai degrab\u0103 dec\u00e2t una cantitativ\u0103. <strong>Succesul \u00eenseamn\u0103 pur \u0219i simplu s\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u0219ti a\u0219a cum \u00ee\u021bi dore\u0219ti. <\/strong> A\u0219a cum sus\u021binea Nietzsche, dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi petreci opt ore pe zi f\u0103c\u00e2nd o munc\u0103 pe care o ur\u0103\u0219ti, e\u0219ti un sclav, indiferent de c\u00e2t de mul\u021bi bani c\u00e2\u0219tigi. Dac\u0103 ideea mea de succes este s\u0103 stau la soare cu o carte \u0219i reu\u0219esc s\u0103 fac asta, acesta este succesul. Mi-am construit un stil de via\u021b\u0103 care mi se potrive\u0219te.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cristina Ivan:<\/strong> Acum c\u0103 am definit succesul, a\u0219 dori s\u0103 m\u0103 aju\u021bi s\u0103 definesc \u0219i leadershipul. C\u00e2t de dificil este s\u0103 fii lider \u00eentr-o societate conformist\u0103?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bruno Medicina: <\/strong>Vorbim despre ceva serios. A fi lider nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 pur \u0219i simplu a fi ascultat la birou; asta \u00eenseamn\u0103 management. Leadership \u00eenseamn\u0103 a avea o viziune asupra viitorului pe care ceilal\u021bi o consider\u0103 conving\u0103toare \u0219i demn\u0103 de urm\u0103rit. \u00centr-o lume care adesea nu are nicio idee \u00eencotro se \u00eendreapt\u0103, un lider ofer\u0103 o viziune care are sens pentru ceilal\u021bi.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Calitatea esen\u021bial\u0103 a unui lider este carisma, \u00een sensul original al cuv\u00e2ntului, adic\u0103 manifestarea darurilor cu care ai fost \u00eenzestrat.<\/strong> Fundamentul autorit\u0103\u021bii este recunoa\u0219terea faptului c\u0103 exist\u0103 ceva mai mare dec\u00e2t propriul t\u0103u ego. C\u00e2nd descoperi acel principiu superior \u0219i te aliniezi la el, po\u021bi conduce. Niciun lider important din istorie nu a condus exclusiv \u00een numele propriu; liderii pretind c\u0103 ac\u021bioneaz\u0103 \u00een numele religiei, al unui popor, al istoriei, al democra\u021biei sau al unei alte cauze mai mari.<\/p>\n<p>Un lider poate perturba un sistem pur \u0219i simplu prin schimbarea acestuia. Cu c\u00e2t devii mai bun, cu at\u00e2t mai mult\u0103 rezisten\u021b\u0103 po\u021bi st\u00e2rni. O viziune are nevoie de timp pentru a deveni realitate, iar obstacolele sunt inevitabile: timpul, banii, birocra\u021bia, lipsa resurselor \u0219i a\u0219a mai departe.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cristina Ivan:<\/strong> Ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 fii excep\u021bional \u0219i original \u00eentr-o lume axat\u0103 pe competen\u021be \u0219i competi\u021bie?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bruno Medicina: <\/strong>Cuv\u00e2ntul \u201ecompeti\u021bie\u201d provine din r\u0103d\u0103cini latine asociate cu efortul comun c\u0103tre acela\u0219i obiectiv. \u00cen practic\u0103, competi\u021bia devine adesea un joc cu sum\u0103 zero: dac\u0103 eu ob\u021bin ceva, tu nu ob\u021bii. Uneori, aceasta este \u00eentr-adev\u0103r situa\u021bia. Tr\u0103im \u00eentr-o societate egalitarist\u0103 \u00een principiu \u0219i competitiv\u0103 \u00een practic\u0103.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Singura competi\u021bie care conteaz\u0103 cu adev\u0103rat este cea cu tine \u00eensu\u021bi.<\/strong> Fiecare dintre noi are propriile abilit\u0103\u021bi, propriul poten\u021bial \u0219i o combina\u021bie unic\u0103 de talente. Din p\u0103cate, societatea tinde s\u0103 promoveze un singur model de succes: lucreaz\u0103 opt ore pe zi pentru ca organiza\u021bia din care faci parte s\u0103 prospere, iar dac\u0103 nu joci acest joc, ri\u0219ti s\u0103 fii etichetat drept un e\u0219ec.<\/p>\n<p>Tr\u0103im \u00eentr-o lume standardizat\u0103 \u0219i birocratic\u0103. Tr\u0103s\u0103tura definitorie a birocra\u021biei \u2013 fie c\u0103 este vorba de o companie, o familie, o \u021bar\u0103 sau orice alt\u0103 structur\u0103 \u2013 este faptul c\u0103 se a\u0219teapt\u0103 ca oamenii \u0219i func\u021biile s\u0103 fie \u00eenlocuibili. Ideea conven\u021bional\u0103 de performan\u021b\u0103 poate deveni, la r\u00e2ndul ei, birocratic\u0103: te evalueaz\u0103 \u00een raport cu standarde predefinite \u0219i te limiteaz\u0103 \u00een cadrul unor structuri stabilite. Valoarea pe care o po\u021bi aduce \u0219i pe care nimeni altcineva nu o poate reproduce este unicitatea ta. Amestecul t\u0103u particular de talente, competen\u021be, experien\u021be, abilit\u0103\u021bi \u0219i chiar limit\u0103ri te face unic. <strong>\u00centr-o lume care \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 te \u00eencadreze \u00een tipare, unicitatea ta este valoarea ta.<\/strong> Cu to\u021bii suntem unici \u0219i originali, dar adesea ascundem acest lucru. Desigur, contextul conteaz\u0103: \u00een cadrul unei structuri nu po\u021bi ignora toate regulile, dar po\u021bi totu\u0219i s\u0103-\u021bi exprimi creativitatea \u00een moduri care ajut\u0103 structura.<\/p>\n<h2>Libertatea, alegerea \u0219i limitele pe care ni le cre\u0103m noi \u00een\u0219ine<\/h2>\n<p><strong>Cristina Ivan:<\/strong> Cum \u00ee\u021bi dai seama care este obiectivul t\u0103u personal dac\u0103 cineva sau ceva \u00ee\u021bi stabile\u0219te mereu obiective \u2014 locul de munc\u0103, familia sau o alt\u0103 structur\u0103?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bruno Medicina: <\/strong>Depinde de tine dac\u0103 vrei s\u0103 urm\u0103re\u0219ti acele obiective impuse. <strong>Una dintre cele mai mari descoperiri este con\u0219tientizarea faptului c\u0103 nu ai obliga\u021bii absolute.<\/strong> \u00cen cursurile mele folosesc un exerci\u021biu: le cer participan\u021bilor s\u0103 fac\u0103 o list\u0103 cu tot ce trebuie s\u0103 fac\u0103 \u00een urm\u0103toarele dou\u0103 luni. Mul\u021bi se \u00eentorc cu liste foarte lungi. Apoi le spun c\u0103 nu m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 lista, pentru c\u0103, strict vorbind, nu sunt obliga\u021bi s\u0103 fac\u0103 niciunul dintre lucrurile acelea: nimeni nu te poate obliga s\u0103 lucrezi, s\u0103 mergi la \u0219coal\u0103 sau s\u0103 te c\u0103s\u0103tore\u0219ti.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Libertatea este absolut\u0103, dar exist\u0103 consecin\u021be.<\/strong> Iar ceea ce oamenii doresc adesea s\u0103 evite nu este alegerea, ci consecin\u021bele. Dac\u0103 nu-\u021bi plac consecin\u021bele, s-ar putea s\u0103 fie nevoie s\u0103-\u021bi reconsideri alegerea care le-a generat. 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Pentru a o descoperi, trebuie s\u0103 te ui\u021bi ad\u00e2nc \u00een tine \u00eensu\u021bi, dar suprafa\u021ba trebuie s\u0103 fie ca un lac lini\u0219tit. Dac\u0103 apa este tulburat\u0103 constant, nu po\u021bi vedea ce se afl\u0103 dedesubt. <strong>Sensul vie\u021bii este s\u0103 g\u0103se\u0219ti sensul vie\u021bii.<\/strong> Trebuie s\u0103 g\u0103se\u0219ti acel sens pentru tine \u00eensu\u021bi. Totul \u00een univers poate avea o func\u021bie sau un loc, dar sensul vie\u021bii tale este, \u00een ultim\u0103 instan\u021b\u0103, sensul pe care i-l dai tu.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cristina Ivan:<\/strong> Cum se leag\u0103 ideea de libertate de dep\u0103\u0219irea limitelor?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bruno Medicina: <\/strong>Dep\u0103\u0219irea unei limite este, prin defini\u021bie, imposibil\u0103: dac\u0103 o dep\u0103\u0219e\u0219ti, atunci nu a fost o limit\u0103 adev\u0103rat\u0103 de la bun \u00eenceput. \u0218i tocmai asta este ideea \u2014 ne cre\u0103m un num\u0103r enorm de limite false. Ne impunem obliga\u021bii \u0219i grani\u021be care exist\u0103 \u00een principal \u00een mintea noastr\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e2nd vorbim despre explorarea poten\u021bialului, este important\u0103 o precizare: faptul c\u0103 un poten\u021bial exist\u0103 nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 trebuie exprimat. Cu to\u021bii avem poten\u021bialul pentru comportament distructiv, corup\u021bie, violen\u021b\u0103 \u0219i multe alte lucruri; asta nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 manifest\u0103m acele posibilit\u0103\u021bi. Din gama enorm\u0103 de posibilit\u0103\u021bi care ne stau la dispozi\u021bie, le alegem pe cele care sunt \u00een concordan\u021b\u0103 cu ceea ce vrem s\u0103 fim.<\/p>\n<p>A\u0219a c\u0103 te \u00eentrebi: Cine spune c\u0103 asta e adev\u0103rat? De unde provine aceast\u0103 convingere? Cum pot verifica dac\u0103 aceast\u0103 limit\u0103 este real\u0103? \u0218i nu uita c\u0103 procesul func\u021bioneaz\u0103 \u00een ambele sensuri: uneori e\u0219ti convins c\u0103 ceva este imposibil \u0219i apoi descoperi c\u0103 se poate face; alteori e\u0219ti convins c\u0103 ceva este posibil, iar realitatea \u00ee\u021bi d\u0103 o lec\u021bie dur\u0103. Trebuie s\u0103 te concentrezi pe ceea ce po\u021bi face, iar modelul t\u0103u mental trebuie s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 fidel realit\u0103\u021bii.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Un interviu despre ceea ce se afl\u0103 dincolo de performan\u021b\u0103 \u0219i de rezultatele imediate, ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 cu adev\u0103rat competen\u021ba, cum s\u0103-\u021bi define\u0219ti succesul \u00een proprii termeni \u0219i de ce unicitatea, libertatea \u0219i viziunea conteaz\u0103 mai mult dec\u00e2t conformismul.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3375,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[35,53,59,8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3384","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-article","category-flow","category-training-coaching","category-uncategorized-ro"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v27.9 (Yoast SEO v27.9) - 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